New Friends…

I’ve recently broken up with my girlfriend and although I have a large group of friends they are all straight. My old gay friends have moved cities, due to jobs, family and travel and I feel very lonely. I’m a very femme lesbian and I find it very hard to be accepted as gay when [...]

Does She Like Me?

Hi there! I’m 16 and I am totally sure that I am bisexual, and have just come out to my best friend. I like girls more than guys, and so far she is the only one who knows. All my friends joke about the possibility of me being bi, but I usually just laugh it [...]

I Think I Love Her… Will She Give Me A Chance?

I am in my early 20’s, my personal and religious beliefs have always been pretty conservative… not passed on from my family. I have always been a tomboy, playing sports, learning about cars, just about anything hands-on or outdoors. My focus has never been on relationships… rather school, work, my future, etc. which has made [...]

Being Friends Or More Than That With An Ex

Here’s the thing. I have this ex from a year ago and we hadn’t spoke for about 8 months, I ran into one of her friends and decided I should contact her. Now the reason we hadn’t spoke in so long was because of her current girlfriend who wouldn’t let her talk to me. Anyways, [...]

Another Straight Girl Crush…

Well I have been questioning my sexuality for a while now. And I’m pretty sure I’m gay. It’s seemed pretty clear since I got the Tegan and Sara mullet and met this one girl. To help with your opinion I’m 15 years old. I’m pretty young, but pretty sure.
So anyway…. I moved a while ago [...]

Heartache Like No Other

I stumbled onto this site while looking for some advice… Here’s my story:
I have known this girl for about 3 years, we went to college together. It wasn’t until my last two years of college that we became really good friends. Before we did though I knew about her and honestly she was kind of [...]

Trust?

I am 27 and I’ve been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years. I am happy and I love her. She is my first girlfriend and my coming out too. I don’t have a lot of lesbian friends; in fact I met the ones that I have through my girl.
I love being gay, I love [...]

A Bit Confused…

I thought I’d seek help from you guys. I don’t consider myself a lesbian as I do find men attractive. I may be a bi-sexual, but I think it’s just a phase I have to outgrow, I am fifteen. I find women about twenty or so years older than I attractive… And I know someone [...]

Confused and Heartbroken

This is really hard for me because I have never talked to anyone about the possibility of being gay or bisexual. I haven’t even posted on a forum like this before. I am not even sure if I really am gay or not. But I need to tell you what has been happening to me [...]

Friends With An Ex?

I’m having difficulty being friends with an ex, even though I would really like to be. I may have messed it up permanently earlier today. In the hope that I have not, how does one go about being friends with an ex? Have you ever successfully done it? Were there limitations or boundaries that made [...]

Mixed Signals

Last year wasn’t an easy year for me. I was going through a phase (growing pains). I was paranoid and I was realizing that I had a crush on someone of the same sex. There was a lot running through my mind. Let’s just say last year hit me hard. So a friend of mine [...]

To Be Or Not To Be.. It’s Not A Question

Ok… I’m not sure if this is going to turn out as a question, or indeed I’ll just be writing a whole load of uninteresting information, but I’ll give it a go anyway…
Ever since I was about 16, I’ve always known that I’ve been attracted to women, but I was constantly telling myself that it [...]

I’m Falling

Ok so, I’ve always liked girls but in the past year I have been honest with myself about being a lesbian. I dated guys in the past but only to keep people from questioning my sexuality. I’ve only come out to a hand full of people who have also turned out to be either gay [...]

Is My Friend Gay?

Okay, I’m not sure if one of my co-workers is gay or not. Normally, I’m pretty good at picking up vibes from women, but I just can’t get a hold on her. One moment she’s giving me “gay” then she giving me “straight.” But in all fairness, I think I’m giving her the same thing. [...]

Confused

Ok, So I am new to this, but hope to get some input on my situation. I have always identified as a straight woman. I have recently begun to spend time with another woman who I have known as an acquaintance for some time now. We have become very close because we spend time together [...]

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